11 Signs You’re A Men’s Right Activist

So I read The Sandy Vagina’s Post about this, and I couldn’t help but share it as well, because it’s hilarious and true, It’s a bit scary how many guys out there I’ve met that showcase at least some of these signs when you talk to them (guys as in strangers I meet when I go out or similar situations, I’d like to believe people I know do not). The tumblr post can be found here and a shirt with the text on here.

1. You have no problem with the gender wage gap. But you hate having to pay for dates.

2. You insist that it’s a scientifically proven fact that men are stronger than women. But you complain about society believing that it’s worse for a man to hit a woman than for a woman to hit a man.

3. You believe that the age of consent is unfair and that there’s nothing wrong with having sex with teenage girls. But when you find out that a teenage girl enjoys sex, you believe she’s the biggest slut in the world.

4. You hate when a woman automatically assumes that a man is a douchebag before getting to know him. But when you like a woman who likes another man, you assume he’s a douchebag just because he’s not you.

5. You believe that if women want equality, they should be drafted into the military. But you also believe that the military is not a place for women.

6. You hate when women assume that men are like wild animals. But you believe that a woman who doesn’t cover up and make herself invisible to men is just like someone wearing a meat suit around wild animals.

7. You hate the fact that men are bullied for not conforming to their male gender roles. But when you find out that a man disagrees with your beliefs about women’s rights, your immediate response is to try to emasculate him by comparing him to a woman as an insult.

8. You hate when women assume that there are no nice guys. But you call yourself a nice guy and act like it’s a rare quality that should cause women to be all over you.

9. You hate when women assume that men just want to get laid. But when you find out that a man is a feminist, you assume that he’s just doing it to get laid.

10. You hate when women make generalizations about all men. But when a woman calls you out for being sexist, you claim that all men think like you.

11. You insist that women should be responsible for protecting themselves from being raped. But when they follow the one piece of advice that actually works, which is being aware of red flags, you complain about them assuming that all men are rapists.

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ONETHOUSAND-FRICKIN’-EIGHTYONE!!! WHAT

 

So I haven’t been active here for awhile, lots of stuff happening in real life I really couldn’t ignore. But today I decided to check out what was going on here on my blog. And I kind of died..
During the day I’ve got 1081 views, most because of people searching on the tag rainbow. I mean, WTF? It’s awesome but I can’t really get how this happened?? Did I get featured somewhere or just on the fronpage of google or something? I mean, I thought like 200-300 views a day were high (I’m not really popular or a good blogger but let’s do what I enjoy, right?) and today it got up to over 1000?

Any ideas about how this happened? I DON’T UNDERSTAND!!!

Awkward “Sexting” and Fixing My Sexlife

 

I think I’ve mentioned before how my sex-drive sometimes is absent. As you can guess this sometimes puts a strain on my relationship with MP, and I hate that, but at the same time I can’t really help it. This makes me sexually awkward, I think I’m being sexy and doing stuff that turns my boyfriend on, but instead I’m miscalculating and do it wrong.

One example is when I tried to send a sexy photo of myself via phone and it turned out that I’d apparently looked really grumpy in the picture and it kinda ruined the mood for MP, also while sexting through Skype, I was trying to be sexy and explicit, and it worked. As you can guess though there’s a but coming after that. I had to go to the store and MP was expecting us to continue where we left off when I came back (he was visiting his family, so we weren’t at the same place). My idea with the whole thing though, was to make him anticipate his return home to me and to build up some sexual tension until then. Apparently I hadn’t been clear that that’s was what I was doing, and I only managed to make MP disappointed and “deflated” (pun intended).

This of course makes me feel like an inadequate partner, and I hate to disappoint MP. I think it’s awkward to write or even talk dirty, and I don’t know how to fix it. It’s damaging our relationship, because even though he doesn’t want to pressure me, he expects some things of our sexlife and it makes him frustrated (and me as well) when things don’t go well.

I have no idea how to fix this. I think I know the cause though. I have recently recovered from receiving the diagnose Bipolar, and have starting taking medicine. This makes my general mood go up, but at the same time it makes my sex-drive drop. Also since I’m having trouble figuring out my sexuality and gender, it’s no wonder I’m not feeling comfortable with myself during sex, since it doesn’t feel right to be in the body I am. When he squeezes my breast or goes down on me, it’s nice but feels awkward and wrong at the same time. That is probably also why I like touching and doing things to MP, but don’t let him reciprocate very often. Which of course makes us both feel awkward and frustrated.

I hate this, but I’m working on making it all better, even if it’s going to slow for my liking…

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Show The Love; Donate To Medical Bills, Hate Crime On Lesbian Couple

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Found this through Reddit today, these two beautiful women were assaulted because of their sexual orientation. They now have extensive injuries and can’t afford their medical bills. Through GoFundMe you can donate to help pay them, which I definitely will, as soon as the Continue button starts working so I can pay(>_<).

Let’s help them together, no sum is too small!

You can get to the fundsite by clicking on the picture or here.

Brightest Love, Ditzy Rainbow

Sterilizing Sweden

Androgynous model Andrej Pejic

There is some times that I’m ashamed to live in Sweden. We’re the top of many human rights laws, but we’re archaic when it comes to others.

Example, since 1972 we have an unchanged law that all who wish to undergo  a sex change has to be a swedish citizen and over 18. Those two are not so bad, but then we come to the last two requirements.

You can’t be married and you have to get sterilized.

The. Fuck.

This law about forced sterilization comes from a time where Sweden sterilized people with mental disabilities, epileptics as well as people with alleged social problems. Not only do you have to get sterilized if you want to transition, you’re also forbidden to freeze your sperm/eggs. Apparently transgender people aren’t allowed to have biological children and you have to get a divorced even if the spouse is ok with the transition.

When it comes to other countries The Netherlands, France, Australia and many U.S states also still practice forced sterilization, while other like Germany and Italy have overturned similiar legislation in their countries.

Recently there has been talk about Sweden finally removing this law, even our Prime Minister Fredrik Reinfeldt called the law and the sterilizations a “dark chapter in Swedish history”. There are still some who opposes a repeal though. The Christian Democrats can be quoted saying; ” sex reassignment surgery is a threat to traditional social roles”

Well, isn’t that just fucked up.

I can only hope that this nightmare for all out there who wish to transition ends soon. I can only imagine what it most feel like to have your chance for biological children being robbed from you.
Although adopted children would be just as loved and cherished, not being able to choose must be incredibly painful.

My thoughts are with you, It get’s better. It has to.

Ditzy Rainbow

(You can find more articles on the subject herehere, here and here.)